MS.LoLA's Things To Remember When Approaching The Opposite Sex
Nov 17,2009 @ 7:58 PM
MS.LOLA's Things to remember when approaching the opposite sex
Hygiene
One thing both sexes can agree on is good hygiene.
If you don’t smell good that is the biggest turn off and will get you automatically dismissed.
Dress Code
Okay depending on your own personal style you have to come correct. Coordinate always, iron your clothes and never be caught half stepping because that is far from cute.
Approach
Guys: When you’re trying to get a females attention the last thing you want to do is shout at her or whistle. This aint the corner store your not going to get anywhere by doing that.
I suggest being smooth and approach the girl by introducing yourself, no sappy pick up lines.
The following questions can be her name, or where she’s from?
You don't want to come off to eager or aggressive.
Girls: I feel a lot of girls have the same problem when talking to men. They simply don’t know what to say or how to start the conversation. Guys are attracted to females who are confident and comfortable in their own skin. So a way you could approach a guy you are feeling is get to know something about him that he likes. Like a sport or type of music these can be conversation starters.
After The Introductions
After you get a number from the opposite sex, first rule NEVER BLOW IT UP!!
Because you have then made yourself look too desperate wait a week or so maybe even two. Then call if they haven't already. When you put yourself out there to quickly it’s almost too easy and the thrill of the chase is what keeps peoples attention.
Communication
Too much information is never good especially when you’re getting to know someone. You don't want to run them off by giving them your whole life story. Keep the conservation flowing, energetic and never talk about personal issues touch on open topics were both parties can take part it
Listening is key, pay attention to what they say and remember if they mention their interests. This can be very useful down the line.
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